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教你快速鉴别渣男

渣男鉴定法

1,You Always Go Dutch

你们约会总是AA制

2, He's Always on the Phone

他总是手机不离手

3. He Can't Handle an Intellectual Conversation

他聊不了有深度的话题

4,He Never Asks About Your Day

他从不关心你这天干了什么

5. He's Too Busy to Help You With Anything

他总是以很忙为借口,从不帮你做事

6,He Doesn't Know How to Console You(When he sees you cry, he does nothing. When you're upset, he looksat you like you're crazy) .

他从不安慰你,当你难过的时候,反而觉得是你无事生非。

7. You Never Get Anything You Want (When you go to a restaurant, your boyfriend orders for you. When thetwo of you are watching TV together, you're always viewing his favorite show).

你总是得不到你想要的 (你们一起出去吃饭,总是点他喜欢的菜;你们一起看电视,总是看他喜欢的节目)。

8,He Pressures You (When he wants to do something, he wants to do it now. He doesn'tcare about your concerns or reactions to the situation).

他总是强迫你 (他想干什么就干什么,从不关心你的感受)。

9. He Only Thinks About Himself (Everything that comesout of your boyfriend's mouth begins with "I". He's only worriedabout his own well-being).

他只考虑他自己 (他总是谈论自己,只关心自己好不好)。

10. He Brings Up Old Mistakes

他总是提起你曾经反的错误。

11. You Don't Feel Appreciated

你总是得不到赞美。

12,He Forgets the Important Things

他总是忘了重要的事情(例如生日、纪念日……)

13. He's Secretive (You never know whetherhe's coming or going. Your boyfriend could be doing anything when he's not withyou and you would have no way of knowing).

你从不知道他的行踪。

14, He Talks to Other Women (He flirts with other womenright in front of you. He still mentions his ex. He even compliments otherwomen's appearances in your presence).

他谈论别的女人(你在你面前和别人调情;仍然提及他的前女友;甚至称赞别的女人的长相)。

15. He's Not Supportive (Your boyfriend laughs atyour dreams and goals).

他不支持你的梦想、事业。

16. He Belittles You

他不尊重你。

17, You're Not His No. 1 Priority (He'd rather spend timewith his friends than have an occasional date night with you -- at least that'show he makes you feel).

他不把你放在第一位 (他的朋友永远比你重要)。

18. He Doesn't Like Your Friends

他不喜欢你的朋友

19. He's Disrespectful to Your Family

他对你的家人不尊重。

20. He Cheats on You

他有外遇。

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渣男对感情的特征

1、对女朋友节俭

常常会算计女友,自己花钱大手大脚却要求女友节俭,这种自私自利的做法就是渣的表现。

2、常动手打女人

家暴是衡量男人是否渣的重要标准,他们往往会在打过之后,想尽一切办法哄你开心,但要知道有第一次就有第二次,如果一味的容忍,只会让其变本加厉。

3、大男子主义

“渣男”拥有典型的“大男子主义”思想,要求女方完全按照他们的意愿行事,稍有不顺,就会大发雷霆,不给对方丝毫的尊重,生气起来简直活脱脱就是“小孩子”的表现。

4、唯利是图

“渣男”在婚姻面前,常常摆出一副“狐狸”般的双面模样,看到有钱家的菇凉,就会想办法接触,然后在获取到自己的利益后,狠狠的将对方甩开,这种“渣男”例子已经屡见不鲜。

5、花心大萝卜

这是“渣男”表现中最鲜明的特征,也是让女人最容易脱口而出骂其“渣男”的。如果一个男人在恋爱时候就表现出不专一,同时和多个女人有暧昧,一定不要相信其爱你一辈子的鬼话,因为那都是在放屁。

6、说的永远比做的多

“花言巧语”永远是渣男的一大技能,不管事先做过多么惊天动地的保证,事后只会是雷声大雨点小的敷衍了事。相信这种给你画饼充饥的男人永远靠不住。